For Us Women:

But what I do know is I can protect myself completely. Its all a game. There are always going to be competition. It’s just the matter of interest between the two. Still second guessing? The game is still at hand. But folding your cards at sight of this problem might seem like the right move. But what If you miss out on the best experience? Play the game. Keep playing. Don’t get all worked up in the middle of the night and hop on your computer and rant….. like I’m doing. Don’t ever second guess your level of integrity. You are THE woman. The woman a man nor his family will ever forget. 
-yours truly